Life During High school and after school

Hardship during and after high school

This is the most common topic which we all face after completing school life.

Our parents say a common line “Beta 10^th par dhyaan de, Boards h” when we manage to get a good score in 10^th then they just pressurizes us to go with science as “neighbours son or daughter took science and earning handsome salary” or if we go with commerce stream “Mera Baccha CA Banega” as after taking commerce except CA there is nothing left in life according to parents just because “neighbours son or daughter is CA and is having good reputation and earning handsome salary”.

Here comes 12th now “Beta 12^th h agar nhi padhai kari toh you will not get good grades and if no good grades then no admission in Delhi University”as the cut off closes at 97% as in today’s scenario.

Now comes actual struggle when you need to get admission especially in Delhi University and do not have any quota.

After college comes the job.

Today I need to ask when our parents use to tell us – “beta school complete kar le phir aish h aish hai. I need to know guys where the Aish is???

Now I would love to share the hardship I faced after 12^th and what actually I learnt:

During school time I was topper and I took commerce and even managed to get good grades and admission in Delhi University and made my mind to be CA without family pressure.

Getting into CA is easy but a journey to become CA is most difficult.

Here is not what I got everything as word CA forced me to quit many things as the most important thing I quit was a regular College degree as it was difficult for daily up-down with regular coaching and good attendance in college.

Becoming CA was a dream of me and my family. So I preferred to do graduation from SOL.

The journey of CA was also not easy as taking 2 coaching in single day and travelling from Faridabad to Delhi and getting up at 4 in morning in winters was the most difficult task.

A time came when I saw my friends doing job, so I thought of doing job and got placed in MNC in single chance and was a proud moment for me and my family.

But the story does not finish here as it is not easy to work in such competitive environment where you need to keep both your eyes and ears open as anything can happen from anywhere. Even you need to manage your studies, social life and work life.

Then comes a frustrating time where I decided to quit both CA and job where I worked for 2 years. Quitting CA was actually the saddest decision for me because it was a dream for me and my family.

At this time I learnt something regarding job “Never leave job without having any offer from other company”.

The time gap of 2 months was actually a much needed break for me but was a lesson for me “Never leave hope” as after 2 months I got placed in “top manufacturing organization”.

Everything was perfect over a period of time but a time came when my DAD got admitted in hospital on 25^th January 2019 and also Grand PA was on bed for period of time.

We were shattered, broken but there was one person my MOM who was having courage and I stood up for her.

She was with DAD in hospital and I used to manage my family, office with the help of my Bhua and Sister. After 15 days when DAD got discharged from hospital and when both came back there was a sigh of relief for us and normal life again started.

Now DAD is getting recovered and living normal life again.

Hence from this article I would share my thought:

1.     Life goes on no matter what

2.     Never give up as you don’t know when the good time will come.

3.     The family that prays together, eats together… stays together

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